Take and give happens in the relationship with The Creator. He take something worth keeping from our lives but surely gives something better in return. We are created with both strength and weakness. There's this poor that was blessed with excellent interpersonal skills. While the rich was somewhat anti social. Or the classic story, where the good looking was dumb yet the ugly was smart and intellectual. So what's actually stopping you from being content and grateful?

 I guess its another comparison trap. That we live according to how people think about us. We use the other persons formula to solve our problems while it should be individually different. We tend to look on others strength easily, focusing ones weakness and look down on our own capabilities.

Self worth is problematic. Caring so much about the weakness makes it appeals even more. The confidence loss. So does the love for ones self. Have we forgotten that we should love ourself before receiving others love and loving them back?

You know what? Its not about getting rid of the incapability monster but rather accepting it as equal. Its not about pulling the rope, but putting it down. Everytime we're exposed to another weakness, think of it as a self-discovery. Make some self improvement so that the self is able to cope in adversity.

As stated in the beginning, we could take and give with God. Perhaps He took some aspect that makes you a weak person. But keep in mind, theres gotta be something you're capable of. Or maybe, it's a matter of time to realise you were blessed with power to change your weakness into something beneficial:)